Me and Taylor's Love Life

 I could write a whole damn persuasive essay about how my life is a direct parallel to TTPD, but nobody in my life knows the album AND my love life in intimate detail (also nobody cares as much as I want them to) so I will just have to talk about it here. I was with my ex for 4 years and towards the end I got really intense whirlwind feelings for a coworker (he didn't want me, he was also 5 ft 4 with a long term girlfriend but boy did he act like he wanted me). I left my ex, but not for the man. I left him because he dulled my sparkle. After the breakup, I took some time to heal and became more candid with my coworker crush. I was eventually shot down and he played dumb like he didn't know what he had been doing to me. I then met another man on a dating app. I just meant to play around and meet people but holy shit I fell so hard. He is everything good. He made me realize that I don't have to give up my needs just to find somebody. I know it sounds like I am a serial monogamist, but the want to be with my current partner was not to fill a void. I have no voids that a man can fill. It was because he was the right one. There are no qualifiers, he is the one. 


ex- Joe Alwyn

songs- So Long London, You're Losing Me, How Did It End?, Fresh Out The Slammer, loml

weird in between crush- Matty Healy 

songs- Guilty as Sin?, I Can Fix Him (No Really I Can), Fresh Out The Slammer, imgonnagetyouback

my baby- Travis Kelce 

songs- So High School, The Alchemy 

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